Story of my life...
This one definitely deserves to go to my blog. I'll put the description right here so that you guys can follow or keep up with my mind and current situation.
Yesterday, I was relaxing, enjoying my vacation, teaching a couple privates, playing my PlayStation... Just doing the regular stuff!
Now I have this amazing girl that I've been talking to, nothing serious, just a causal friendship. Then, all of a sudden, I receive a message from her or allegedly from 'her'.
You see the way I talk: 'mami', which means girl. Usually, it's being used with someone that I'm comfortable with or that I have a relationship where we joke around and stuff like that. But, that's not even the story.
Like I told you, I got a reply from her saying: "who the f$ck you calling mami?" That was a red flag. That's not lady like to have this masculine energy... And then, on the same message she (or allegedly 'she') said stop.
By that time I already knew that there was a high possibility that this was not her so I played along to throw the allegedly 'person' of my tail.
If I tell you how, you're going to know my secret . So I kept my cool, assessed the situation and gave some good old points that we're actually friends! Now the story is done.
If you get to the point of getting your girl's phone to look for numbers and write down messages to the guys that your girl is talking to, just don't have a girlfriend man .
Do yourself a favour. You're too weak for a relationship. Build your self-esteem, then get someone and learn to trust them.
That is sad... Sad.